Delay is hateful, but it gives wisdom. It is bound to happen to each of us, an unplanned delay. For type-A personalities, it tests one’s patience, ability to withstand frustration, and sanity. It is about our perception of loss of control, control over when the weather will clear, to how repairs are completed by the mechanic, in what timeframe, how much it will cost, and the general ambiguity of the immediate future. If previously traveling with others, it feels like you have been left behind. There is so much to explore and see, and yet you must sit…and wait.
And yet, we control the story we tell ourselves. It is easy to focus on what is lost; it is tougher to focus on what is gained-new friends, time for boat projects, a chance to slow down and enjoy, learning patience, trust, and gratefulness. We are safe, healthy, and have shelter. During this pandemic, we are mostly outside, and at a social distance from others, we are well, the sun is shining, we have enough.
Life still offers choices; rent a car, be a tourist, take a walk or bike ride, visit friends and family, return home, or work on the boat. During this journey, Loopers continue to meet again. Each of us has a unique path, and those paths continue to cross in the future. No two trips are alike; some stop for delays, others to visit friends and family; some have a specific travel cadence; eventually, all meet again. The sites to explore remain as they are and patiently wait for our future arrival. All is well, and we are blessed.
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